Well, first of all I hope you are still with us and not lying buried in some backyard since the psycho neighbour had a bad day.
I don't know this lady but I can very well imagine that she kind of sucks with her 45 minutes "quick" questions. On the other one has to almost feel a little sorry for her. Maybe you should just have a nice neighbourly chat with her? Make her some brownies? Set her apartment on fire? Train your cat to crap onto her doormat?
On the other hand, if I had the chance to get outta there I'd also take it. I keep my fingers crossed that the situation will improve soon. Keep us updated.