Queenie Dumps

<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>BonnieRumsfield wrote:

<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>RayPeterson wrote:

Marriage...(*shudders*)<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>

Awww you have a fear of it?<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>

Hm, fear is the wrong term. I just can't imagine spending my life with one single person. Sooner or later every relationship comes to the point when the magic is kind of gone and you just keep living together.

Maybe I haven't met the right girl so far. That's one of the theories. Nice, very nice.
 
But that's the thing. You don't have to let the magic die. Just do things together. Spend time with each other. I've heard from a lot of couples that date every weekend are much happier. So don't let the dating stop after marriage. And maybe you haven't found that girl yet.
 
It's funny how we went from talking about burning crap on people's porches to marriage. hahahaha
 
I think those who lose the 'magic' can't have a great deal to begin with.
It gets better and better. And you not only have a 'wife' but a soul mate. Someone who knows you inside out, can share troubles, it's a very profound and deep thing. It's good karma.
 
<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>Art Weingartner wrote:

I think those who lose the 'magic' can't have a great deal to begin with.
It gets better and better. And you not only have a 'wife' but a soul mate. Someone who knows you inside out, can share troubles, it's a very profound and deep thing. It's good karma.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>

Thank you, Art. That is beautiful, and so true. And it's better to come from someone who's actually married.

I'll admit I actually was scared to get married for a while. After my parents split, well..I guess it's normal to think that way. But I told myself I'd be careful, learn everything about the person..and I've been doing pretty good at it so far hehe. I'd say. So hopefully things will work out for me in the future. I still have plenty of time ahead.
 
<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>Art Weingartner wrote:

I think those who lose the 'magic' can't have a great deal to begin with.
It gets better and better. And you not only have a 'wife' but a soul mate. Someone who knows you inside out, can share troubles, it's a very profound and deep thing. It's good karma.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>


Art,you are exactly right,after you find your soulmate it only gets better.Sure,you'll have your ups and downs,but as the years roll on,you only find more and more things to be grateful for.Yes it is very good karma.
 
But the way to finding your soulmate is a very long and rough way with many obstacles to pass and many disappointments connected. Maybe in the end it's worth it.

But I'm not keen on setting foot on the rough parts of the way, you know? Why make life even more complicated than it already is?

Best thing would be if my doorbell rang. "Who is there?" "Yohoooo, it's your soulmate!" Yup, that would be cool.
 
Hahahaha LOL how true...how true...ahhh that ol'd chestnut love....

On Tuesday 7th Oct we'll have been together 21 years. Married 18 years this year. It's flown!
 
Congrats Art. That's a long time together
 
<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>kennyman wrote:

<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>Art Weingartner wrote:

I think those who lose the 'magic' can't have a great deal to begin with.
It gets better and better. And you not only have a 'wife' but a soul mate. Someone who knows you inside out, can share troubles, it's a very profound and deep thing. It's good karma.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>


Art,you are exactly right,after you find your soulmate it only gets better.Sure,you'll have your ups and downs,but as the years roll on,you only find more and more things to be grateful for.Yes it is very good karma.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>


Kennyman,I sure do LOVE YOU.That was wonderful what you said,and Art what you said was wonderful too.Bonnie,I just wanted you to know...I think your a wonderful person,and whoever God Blesses you with will be a lucky guy.Ray's Yard,what you said about marriage was also great.Then last but not least,Ray Peterson, I belive with all my heart,that when the time is right, you'll find that right person.Not that I'm a huge country music fan,but Garth Brooks song The Dance says it so well...The line goes,I could have missed the pain,but I'd have had to miss the dance.Basiclly,It's better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all...If there is anything,I've learned from my Grandparents marriage it's that.Even though my Grandpa has passed,I know my Grandma would not have missed the dance.She would have done it all over again for Grandpa's love and us kids. :D
 
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