Willingness to help in today's society

RayPeterson

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I just returned from the university and something strange just happened. I was walking to the urban train station. You have to use an escalator. In front of me there was a woman holding a tiny dog in her hand which just looked like Queenie.


All of a sudden the dog jumped out of her hands and her left little paw got entangled in the escalator, tearing the little dog deeper within. Of course the lady reacted in complete panic and tried to draw the paw out but it was already stuck. You can't imagine how this little dog was whining. It was heartbraking.

So first thing I did was to pull the emergency stop of the escalator. I carefully tried to remove the paw but it didn't work. I didn't know who to call and asked some people if they knew a number. Either they shrugged or didn't even reply at all. Finally one gave me a number of the station operator. So I called the station operator and asked for help. I missed my train but I didn't care since I was busy with trying to calm the girl and her dog down ("Are they going to amputate her paw?" "No, looks, as if just the claws are affected".

Whatever, what I just wanted to say is: do you think someone else offered help in this situation? Nooooohohohoho. They all went up the stagnant escalator, looked at the dog and went on. Only few people asked if they could help. Maybe it was due to the fact that I was already there but most people really didn't seem to care. It was strange.
 
It's called the bystander effect, or bystander apathy. Check out Laterne and Darley (I think it is...) We did it in psychology at University.

I pulled up behind a car last week in that rainstorm I mentioned. The car was holding back loads of traffic having broken down (wet engine). A lone female was driving. She was in her 60s. How do I know? Because when I pulled off the road to help I saw it was my mother in law. Everybody just wound up their windows, didn't look over, no-one offered to help...just carried on driving and making ice cream treats for the townsfolk...

OH tell a lie...4 young youths in a car asked if we needed any help. That was good of them. Next time an older twat goes on about the youth of today having no manners, I shall cram that story down their neck.

Good on you Ray P. Good samaritan. Not many of us left ;)

Poor little dog...I bet it was shaking.
 
Good man RP. I may call you the next time I need help. I recently saw a video from New York, in it some guy got hit by a car and layed helpless in the street as people just walked by and looked at him. Very sad. I urge everyone to keep the faith and remember the message,
 "There is still good out there."
 
I hope that this urge to help will not get me into trouble some day. You know I don't think about whether to help or not, I just do it before my brain starts to react :)

Did anyone catch this news story some years ago?


I thought that was very impressive. But you see what I mean, you might risk your own life.
 
Thats the first time i've seen that story but I will agree,
that is the actions of a true hero. And he didn't need some fancy outfit to do it!
 
I totally respect guys like him 1000 times more than every lawyer, politican or other men in suits.
 
<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>RayPeterson wrote:

I totally respect guys like him 1000 times more than every lawyer, politican or other men in suits.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>

 I agree.
 
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