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Sounds like an episode of "Knots Landing" or something like that. :)

And what happes if she decides to stay in Florida?

I'm afraid then you'll have to bury her in your backyard. :omg:
 
I'll get the shovel(s)
 
Bonnie, I hope that you have more luck than I currently have.

As you might know, I'm a student and currently make an internship since September 2008. There I met a very special girl. I thought I finally met HER. The lady of my dreams, the most beautiful, intelligent and humorous girl one can only imagine.

We've been fooling around, having a nice time together, spent the lunch breaks together, talking about everything under the sun. And: she was single.

To make a long story short: my internship ends in February and then I wanted to ask her if she wants to continue our relation by meeting in private. Now I had to learn that she has a new boyfriend. Game over. Didn't she reciprocate my feelings? Have I been waiting too long with admitting my true feelings? As much time as we spent together, I didn't dare to talk about my feelings since I didn't want to affect our good working relationship. It takes such a long time until I fall in love and it finally happened. Don't know how many years it'll take until I will develop the same feelings for one woman again.

Boy, do I feel sad and bad today :(

Some words of comfort, anyone?
 
Sometimes all you can do is walk away knowing you experienced something very special and be grateful in that knowledge. Take with you not a heavy heart, but instead the revelation that she brought something meaningful into your life that you will carry with you the rest of your days. Seldom are we able to custom tailor the end to our stories. Life is just too random. Everyone we meet in life will bring unique and sometimes wonderful experiences that teach us things we may not have otherwise known. Life can never return to what it was. It can only evolve. Take solace in your new found discoveries about yourself and use them to forge ahead into tomorrow. It isn't time to write your ending yet.
 
<span class="postlistquotedtext"><blockquote>quote:<center><hr width="100%"/></center>TheManiacNextDoor wrote:

Sometimes all you can do is walk away knowing you experienced something very special and be grateful in that knowledge. Take with you not a heavy heart, but instead the revelation that she brought something meaningful into your life that you will carry with you the rest of your days. Seldom are we able to custom tailor the end to our stories. Life is just too random. Everyone we meet in life will bring unique and sometimes wonderful experiences that teach us things we may not have otherwise known. Life can never return to what it was. It can only evolve. Take solace in your new found discoveries about yourself and use them to forge ahead into tomorrow. It isn't time to write your ending yet.<center><hr width="100%"/></center></blockquote></span>

My heart or thoughts couldn't agree with you more Maniac.This was the most meaningful piece of advice,I've heard in a long time.
 :D
 
Yeah, thank you for those nice words. Still I feel like a piece of shi*. Can't eat, can't sleep. No motivation to do something at all.

Hope this state won't last too long. A little Burbs - dose might help.
 
I don't have any advice because I've been married a long time, but I can offer a cold one and and ear. Hang in there buddy and don't lock youself up, get out there and move ahead. Life is WAY to short.

Peace.
 
Thanks, thanks.

I have to deal with the situation. And one day I'll get over it. Maybe one day I'll even laugh about what I'm writing here.

But this might take some time.

You know, there are girls which are just beautiful and offer nothing else.

There are girls which are beautiful and intelligent.

There are girls which are beautiful, intelligent and have a fantastic sense of humor.

And there is ONE girl which is beautiful, intelligent, funny and in which I'm able to fall in love.

You know what I mean? It takes such a long time until I finally fall in love with someone.

My friends are telling me that there are other wonderful girls out there waiting for me, but I don't want other girls. Other girls will have to compete with her since I will compare them with her. And they're gonna lose that competition.

So after February we'll go seperate ways. I just hope that I'll have enough energy and concentration to comply with the things I'm intending to do afterwards (my diploma and so on).

*sigh*, I really hope that one day I'll wonder what I've been writing here.
 
Ray Peterson,I agree with you about taking the dose of The Burbs.Whenever I put The Burbs in,it always makes me feel better!So did you watch The Burbs?I know when I'm upset I imagine being Hans,in a thunder storm,beating a bulky moist Hefty bag with a stick! :D
 
RP you say you two are going your seperate ways after Feb. so I would urge you to ask yourself,
what do I have to lose by telling her how I feel?
Her having a new boyfriend does not necessarily mean game over...remember, you must dig through a lot of dirt before finding the diamond!
 
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