I kind of understand where you´re coming from Hydrocephalic, I have it the same way too with E.T, The Burbs and as you mentioned in another thread... The Money Trap...and also The Goonies (most of the first half), Ghostbusters etc...
It was from a great era, the 80s, people had aspirations and hopes for the future, togetherness and building a family, and neighborhood was the main focus. Today...this is kind of lost.